The role my birth children play in fostering

Our three children have made a huge contribution to our fostering journey, sharing their home, sharing us as parents, and sharing their whole world with the babies and toddlers that have joined and left our family over the years. There are some areas where they beat us adults hands down, like playing, entertaining, and making the children laugh.

Roles have also emerged over time, like the sporty one who teaches babies to kick a ball as soon as they can walk, the artist who produces beautiful artwork for them to take away when they leave us, and the mini mum who has even been known to ask to help with night feeds.

Saying goodbye to children is never easy, however we’ve been lucky enough to keep in touch with the majority of them, and it’s always our three they are most excited about seeing when we meet up. Particularly to those who’ve moved on to become only-children, our trio will forever play the role of big brother and sisters, cheering them on from a distance, celebrating their achievements, and showing their continued love and support as they all grow up.

They’re also usually the first to say they’re ready to do it all over again with a new child.

We know that many people question the impact fostering will have on their own children. At GCC, you and your children will be supported throughout your journey. Many of our foster carers have shared that fostering has helped shape their children into more understanding, kind and empathetic individuals.

Let us reassure you - speak to us to find out how we can support you and your family.